lovesexandhumor asked: Hi! I'm so sorry about the negatives anonymous messages you've gotten. If people have such a strong statement to make, why can't they post their name? I hope you do keep your blog. I think it's wonderful! If someone doesn't like what you post on your blog, they are free to start their own! Each Tumblr blog is very personal and that's a good thing! You can't please everyone no matter how hard you try. I hope you consider keeping your blog. ((hugs))

Thanks. Every time I received a complaint like that (until I recently decided it wasn’t worth the trouble), I used to remind people that they were more than welcome to submit whatever kind of pictures they felt were underrepresented on this blog. Unsurprisingly, nobody ever did.

Maybe I should just disable asks, or at least anonymous ones. I didn’t want to look like I was trying to silence criticism, but if it’s just going to be the same snarky comment that I’ve already responded to half a dozen times, I guess it wouldn’t hurt to silence that.

You’re right about not being able to please everyone. I want to, though. But I’ll try to keep that in mind.